Mitchell Milch, LCSW/Phone:201-647-6607
HealthyMindSets.Com
Will you talk to anyone about your partner except your partner because most if not every discussion with your partner about your relationship becomes an exasperating, painful and ultimately depressing vicious cycle of attack and counterattack?
Do you feel caught up in a Catch 22 of not pleasing your partner, not being considered because you never do enough, and yet no matter how unhappy you become you are still too terrified of rejection and/or abandonment to stand up for yourself?
Does your self esteem rise and fall like an unstable stock market as if everyone controls how you feel about yourself except you? Do you expect perfection of yourself and others and find yourself feeling undeserving and/or unappreciative of the love and support available to you?
Do you ever feel so empty, numb or cut off from yourself that the pain of feeling useless and worthless to yourself and others drives you to drink, drug, eat, gamble, spend, or have sex for to escape your misery?
If you can identify with the stories above then, you are not alone and I can help. I will provide you a place of safety and security and together we will answer the question: What tools, strategies, and mindsets do you need me to help you call your own to improve the quality of your life?
I am a licensed clinical social worker with five plus years of postgraduate education. I have worked as a psychotherapist and couples counselor for 16 years, have taught at universities, and have written many articles found on thie website. I see it as my calling to help others grow and make meaningful choices that will bring them greater happiness and serenity.
My jobs are to help clients trust their choice of goals as worthy of their time and energies, to educate them on how we will make their goals a reality, and support them to overcome any fears they might have of breaking old habits and trying new ways of being.
Our relationships are designed to be positive role models to be used as guides for creating satisfying and meaningful relationships outside my office. Compassion, concern, kindness, empathy, respect and consideration are the values that guide my work and build my clients' trust and confidence that I will use my skills and talents to further their best interests at all times.
If you are interested in setting up a consultation please call me at 201-647-6607 or send me an e-mail at mhmilch@healthymindsets.com
Professional Affiliations
The Institute For Psychoanalysis & Psychotherapy Of N.J.
National Association Of Social Workers
